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Vol.3.95

Emotional Imprint

by Vince Poscente
Author of The Ant and the Elephant, Invinceable Principles and The Age of Speed

The gift that lasts a lifetime is not just for kids. Adults can garner benefits from something called an emotional imprint. Typically used in psychology as a negative term – I like to think of the positive aspects of this kind of inflection point.

 

I can remember seeing a venerable Alberta politician Peter Lougheed speak at a gathering. This was an emotional imprint where, I too, decided to be a politician. This defining moment was a naïve leap of logic. Something about impacting our world would be facilitated by a politician’s speaking modus operandi. As time unfolded, it became evident I could speak professionally without the trappings of a political life.

 

When asked to do the opening keynote for the National Speakers Association’s annual convention I wanted my 10-year-old daughter to give my introduction. Theories bounced around why I would have my child present. But it was entirely from a father’s perspective. You see - Alex loves an audience. She exudes confidence and has amazing communication skills for such a young soul.

 

I believe that her future occupation will have something to do with communication. Whether it is acting, presenting, broadcasting or simply selling a concept – my sense is she will be good at it because she LOVES it. To give her an early chance to present before 1,300 professional speakers was an aligned emotional imprint.

 

 

 

 

It was interesting how she adapted on the fly. Her planned opening was a curtsy followed by, “I know what you’re thinking: How cute is she?” But, when she walked on stage the audience stopped clapping a tad early. She looked at them then threw her hands out in a Fonzi appeal. According to Alex, “After they laughed and clapped I knew I was on a roll.” She had them doubled over when she said that her dad loves her so much that he has been home almost every single day this year. The speaking business has been hit hard by a struggling economy and it was true crowd pleaser. (Special thanks to Steve Rizzo for his comedic scripting and Dov Friedman for the pictures.)

 

Professional M.C., conference summarizer and funny guy, Dale Irvin, added to the fun. “Then we had Vince Poscente do our opening keynote. Now Vince, it’s cute to have your daughter give your introduction. But it’s quite another thing when she’s better than you are.”

 

Giving a child this kind of positive emotional imprint is what most parents aspire for. Expose your kids to a plethora of opportunities and it helps nurture their development, awareness and prospects for the future. Yet, we adults seem to forget we could use this technique on ourselves too.

 

Give yourself a gift of an emotional imprint. Expose yourself to unique, comfort-zone-expanding experiences. Fill your life with new experiences that align with an emotional buzz. It may very well be another inflection point in your life.

 

Meanwhile, we’ll be doing the same for Alex’s brother and sister too.

 

Until next week its full speed ahead,

 

 

 

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